Faith Overcomes Resentment
A Sermon for Sunday, August 17th, 2014
By Father John R. Smith
Readings:
Lesson: Genesis 45:1-15
Psalm: Psalm 133
Epistle: Romans 11:1-2a, 29-32
The Holy Gospel: Matthew 15: (10-20), 21-28
Last Sunday I shared with you the need to “keep our eyes fixed on
Jesus.” This flowed from the somewhat humorous Gospel story of Peter
walking on the stormy sea toward Jesus. Peter sets out looking at
Jesus, but when he realizes his situation and feels the strong winds and
the turbulent waves at his feet, he takes his eyes off of Jesus and
flounders and begins to sink and cries “Save me, Lord!”
This Sunday we again see the importance of trusting God and God’s Son
Jesus as we consider the topic of resentments. (Here I shared a list of
resentments around divorce, race, other religions, forms of suffered
abuse, against power, the poor, immigrants, refugees, sexual
orientation, etc.) Have you had any deep-seated resentments in your
life? I have. Has that resentment ever caused you to hold back
forgiveness from the person or persons involved? I’ve dealt with that.
Have you?
The scriptures this Sunday teach us the only way we can truly be healed from resentment.
We continue with the Joseph story. Joseph, favorite son of Jacob who
receive the multi-colored coat, was hated by his jealous brothers, who
threw Joseph down a pit to die. When the brothers thought better of it,
they hauled Joseph out and sold him as a slave to some traders on their
way to Egypt. Joseph was a bright, good-looking fellow and he gets his
first job in Egypt working for Potiphar, a regent of the Pharaoh.
Potiphar’s wife wants to seduce Joseph to lay with her and when he
refuses, she runs out and yells rape. On her word, Joseph is thrown
into jail, even though completely innocent. Can you see how resentment
could grow in Joseph’s life?
Later, Joseph gets a chance to interpret Pharaoh’s dream and he is so
successful Pharaoh lets him out of jail and Joseph is made Master over
all of Egypt. He virtually has the same power as the Pharaoh. All this
happens just in God’s time, you could say, so when his brothers, sent
to buy grain in Egypt because of a severe famine in Israel, Joseph has
power meet their need and sell them grain. Now Joseph was no saint, but
he did have a strong faith in God’s providence. His resentment was
such that he could have sent his brothers off hungry, with nothing to
bring home, but because he believed God had a plan for him to be in
power and to be in a position to help his family, and the resentment and
hurt he had was let go and he was able to reconcile with his brothers
and even see his father Jacob again. And the proof of his healing was
that he forgave his brothers from the heart!
Faith in God overcame deep resentment and hurt.
In today’s Gospel we see the same dynamic in play. A few verses
earlier, the Pharisees have caught Jesus’ disciples eating without
washing their hands. They complain to Jesus that his disciples are not
following the traditions of the elders. Jesus then tells them that it
isn’t what goes into the mouth that defiles a person, but what comes out
of the mouth. This is offensive to the Pharisees and Jesus’ disciples
tell him how much Jesus has just offended the Pharisees. The Pharisees
resentment against Jesus builds up even more. They think they teach the
Law of God, but they refuse to recognize the fulfillment of that Law
standing in front of them. Their resentment festers and grows. They
want Jesus to die.
Then,
continuing on his travels, a Canaanite woman approaches Jesus to ask
for healing for her daughter. Jesus ignores her. She asks again. The
disciples want her sent away. Jesus adds that his mission is to the
lost sheep of Israel, not her ilk. But the pagan woman persists. Jesus
basically calls her and her people “dogs.” But then she comes back and
says “even the dogs eat the scraps from the Master’s table.” Jesus is
conquered. Jesus acknowledges her faith in him and heals her daughter
“instantly.”
Just think of the resentments this women had: being put down as a
complete pagan and called a dog. Yet clinging to her faith in this
Jesus, those resentments lost their power. She and her daughter were
healed. She could have walked off in a huff, flipped Jesus off, but
instead hung in there with faith in the person of Jesus. She didn’t
take her eyes off Jesus- she believed in him.
I think most of the problems of the world, divisions between people, and
wars, are the result of deep-seated hurts and resentments. Only faith
in a loving God, or those who incarnate the presence of a God of love in
the world (us!), can heal those resentments and open the way to
forgiveness and reconciliation.
So if we have any lingering resentments that we are holding on to, today
is an opportunity to be healed and forgiven. Perhaps have that
intention when you come to Holy Communion and express your faith in
Jesus. Even if you think Jesus or one of his representatives (maybe a
priest or other Christian person) has let you down and called you a dog,
hang in there with faith, don’t blow God off, like so many have, stay
right here and be healed.
Amen.